*Disclaimer: Small trigger warning as this post mentions Postpartum Depression (PPD).
Chloe's motherhood journey had its challenges, including postpartum depression. She found solace in confiding in fellow mums and hopes to normalize the stigma around PPD. The most rewarding part for her has been the overwhelming love and joy of raising her daughter. Motherhood has transformed her, giving her a sense of worth and purpose.
What is the most challenging part of your motherhood journey so far? and how did you cope with it?
Now there have been a few, but the suffers of postpartum depression would have to be at the top of the list. From anxiety, strong feelings of sadness, crying spells (for no reason), the list goes on! I struggled with them all. I felt as though I couldn’t speak about it until one of my other mama friends came to me about her struggles and then we bonded over our contests.. sounds weird right? We need to understand and normalise the stigmas around postpartum depression, because it is so common and NORMAL! I brought another life into this world, one that needs me and depends on me, life that has basically taken away my identity.. why wouldn’t I be depressed about feeling like I don’t know who I am anymore? I have never loved anything more in life than I do my baby girl, but I have struggled.
Confiding in my mama friends, especially the ones that are going through the same things and feelings as I am has really helped me. I hope that I can be a shoulder to lean on for other mamas out there that are going through PPD. Normalise the stigma. I am here 💜
What has been the most rewarding part of your motherhood journey so far? How has it impacted your life?
Bringing life into this world, life that’s half of you and half of your loved one, is pretty god damn amazing! That insane and overwhelming feeling of love is so rewarding. Honestly, there are so many things that give me that wonderful feeling, her laugh, her cheekiness, watching her reach milestones and playing by herself, learning together, it’s all so heartwarming, it kind of hurts!
I’ve grown as a person since becoming a mum, I’m stronger, my priorities have shifted, and I’ve said goodbye to friendships/relationships that no longer positively impact my life. Becoming a mother has given me a true sense of worth and purpose.
What advice would you give to a new mum or wish someone had told you before you became a mum?
Your best is good enough! Listen to your instincts and try not to worry or put too much focus on how other people parent. Be strong and confident in your choices, because you know your baby best.
Unfollow all those “fit mum” and “sleep consultant” instagram profiles 😆 they are not good for your health! Don’t forget to look after yourself & reach out if you need someone to listen 💜